In case you missed it: 🛑 Forgiveness Is Something You do for You. Access Is Something People Earn…

Published 5 months ago • 2 min read

I forgive Reader.

I forgive. And it has made me freer than I ever imagined.

But forgiveness does not mean that I give indiscriminately anymore.

For years, I confused the two.

I thought being loving meant endless chances. I thought being compassionate meant endless understanding. I thought being kind meant endless access.

It doesn’t.

Today I forgive more easily than I ever have.

And I am more selective than I have ever been.

I forgive Reader. But I don’t ignore patterns.

I forgive. But I don’t explain away behavior.

I forgive. But I don’t keep putting my hand on a hot stove to prove how evolved I am.

I forgive. But I no longer throw pearls before swine.

I forgive. But I no longer give the store away.

One of the greatest lessons life has taught me is that forgiveness and access are not the same thing.

Forgiveness is something I do for me.

Access is something people earn.

And what a glorious thing it is to finally know the difference.

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