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Reader, Not all grief looks like grief. Sometimes it looks like…
Because grief isn’t always about death. Sometimes it’s:
There is a lot to mourn in those things. And here is where it gets complicated: High-functioning women don’t always register this as grief. We adapt, we push forward. We stay productive. You tell yourself: “I’ll be fine, I just need to get back on track.” But underneath that, there’s something unresolved. And when it’s not acknowledged …it doesn’t disappear. No. Instead, it shows up as:
This is not because something is wrong with you …but because something meaningful ended, and your system hasn’t caught up yet. See: This is a different kind of work. Not fixing. Not pushing. But actually meeting yourself where you are now and recalibrating from there. If you recognize yourself in this, reply PRIVATE and we can talk.
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Your anger is intelligent Reader. This is something I wish more women understood: Not all anger is dysfunction. Some anger is clarity. Sometimes it’s the first honest response your system has had in years. Especially after loss… ESPECIALLY after betrayal. Especially after carrying too much for too long. Anger lets you know that something you Value is being disregarded, even violated. A lot of high-functioning women are comfortable with sadness; we’re comfortable with endurance and we’re...
There are moments in your life that don’t get talked about enough Reader. Moments when everything changes… but you’re still expected to function like nothing did. And you do it — you still show up. You handle all the things, you make decisions and you keep life moving - for you and those around you. Because that is who you’ve always been: Capable. Reliable. The one who figures it out. But underneath that now, something has shifted. Whether it’s because you’ve suffered a loss or you’re in a...
Women like you don’t need more information! You are so far beyond that Reader! You’ve researched, you’ve tried “the things.” Affirmations Therapy Yoga Tapping/EFT Meditation Your priest Support groups… You’re not avoiding the work, no. You’re a voracious learner and deeply curious. You’re highly intelligent — not just intellectually, but emotionally …INTUITIVELY. You genuinely want to understand. I get that. But here’s the part most women miss: Knowledge does not equal behavior change. Read...